I was in shock when I saw it, and a little honored I guess.Jste si jist/a, že nechcete povolit verzi chatu využívající technologii Flash?I asked what he thought, and he told me if that’s what I need to do to get some extra cash and I’m not hurting anyone, then yeah, do it. I’d politely say, “No I can’t,” “I’m too busy,” or that I wasn’t going to be around.
Of course you can’t please everyone, because I don’t do certain things. Pretty much anyone can watch, and as long as you’re not acting like an ass, I’m cool with it.” But I’ve had females and couples watch; I thought it was cool because they’d say it was helping their sex life.
What happens when someone asks you to do something you’re not comfortable with? They were trying something new, so I’d tell them, “Yeah, me too LOL.” Do you think there’s more of a stigma against male webcam performers than female performers? [It’s odd], because a lot of people say how men are all about sex and it’s all we think about, but the reality is females think about it just as much, or sometimes even more than we do.
He goes by the name Mike Hard, and he’s a performer on camming site Streamate.
He agreed to chat with me about what it’s like to be a cam boy.
Do your friends and family know that you do camming on the side? There was this couple that liked to do cam-to-cam with me.
There is only one person in my family that knows that I cam, and that’s my cousin. At first I didn’t think anything of it, but after a while they would ask me if we could meet in person and get together.
I never had any kind of background in the camming industry.
I got offered a while back — way back in the days of Myspace — to do porn, camming, even to be a stripper, mainly because I’ve always stayed in great shape I was always active ether by playing football, wrestling, or just hitting the gym, because it’s what I love.
When I’m asked to do something I wouldn’t do, more often than not I’d say, “I’m sorry, but I don’t do that.” Most of the time people understand, and when people don’t, or I see them acting like jerks in the chat room with other viewers, I kick them out. That, and they show their sexual side more than most of us males do.
Hell, I watch some of my female friends on their cams — females are truly beautiful and very sexy, just everything about them. Is it harder for men to earn money as webcam performers? I do think it is a little harder for males to make money as performers, specially if you’re a solo performer and don’t have that female counterpart.
Mike Hard started camming toward the end of 2013, when a change in his work situation left him in need of some extra cash.