But if you want to make her want you and respect you more, never text back too fast. ” This should be done to an extent, because there is a flip side to the coin of taking too long to respond every time…
Try to consistently text back in 10 or 15 minutes and occasionally mix it up to even an hour or so later. It’s NOT cool to make a girl wait more than six hours, let alone a day or two.
” If you really want to send her photos that’ll put a smile on her face, send photos of adorable furry animals. If you’re using text slang, improper grammar, or being lazy about checking your messages before you send them, chances are you’ve already blown it. If she never swears or uses slang language, never use it back.
She’ll appreciate those a lot more 🙂 “I had a gr8 time last nite. Read your texts before you send them and don’t use slang. Note: LOL and WTF are ok to a point, but try to avoid these in the first few texts so you can test to see if she likes using them. If she sends you a long message, reply with a long one back. No girl wants to look in the mirror and see a witch staring back, so don’t give her a bad reflection by sending 6 texts back if she only sends 3, or reply to a 20 character sentence with a 200 character text monologue.
Your level of investment must either match or be lower than hers, so adapt to her texting style and respond in tune with her. To avoid slipping into the friend zone at all costs, avoid idle chit chat like the plague.
Tease her, play with her, include her on inside jokes so the feelings of fun and attraction she felt for you when you first met are not only maintained but amped up, so your texts light up her eyes rather than dull her day with the burden of having to text you back.
There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Take This 2 Minute Quiz and see if you still have a chance to get her texting back and on a date. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that.
Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.
Remember, hot girls receive dozens of texts a week from guys just like you. If you haven’t sparked enough emotion, she’ll more than likely turn you down.
That’s why the first few texts you text a girl are critical in pumping her emotion to the point that when you suggest a date she’ll be gagging for it.
After you read the 21 mistakes I’ll give you the solutions…
Since using this rule, I now never get those “first text blues” and you if you stick to this rule you won’t either!
If you’re at the office and she texts you early afternoon, wait until you finish work. Love Panky talked more about picking the right time to text her here. It just ain’t cool and she won’t think you care about her if you don’t get back until the next day.