I have a good job a t a major corporation and have recently purchased a house.
So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.
If Black women are so up in=2 0arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.
They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to.
Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control.
Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us.
Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA RESPONSE Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church.
A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women.
We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses.
I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes... But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none.